For a fact, one of the happiest moment in your life is when you are about to be engaged by that man that has proven himself to be your knight in shining amour.
However, just right before you end up in marriage, it’s really important to have the right outlook and mindset.
Okay, you may allude to having the right mindset already. But how could you be confident about that if you haven’t answered the following questions:
Can you imagine any other Man other than him marrying you?
Are you marrying him because you are caught up in the trend of marriage that is prevalent amongst ladies or the excitement of feeling among the married couples?
Do you love and accept him just the way he is?
You must assume that any shortcomings you have observed is what he would bring to the marriage.
Are you ready to live with such shortcomings while you are with him?
Do not get into the marriage with the notion that he will change or that you can change him.
If you can’t accept some of his habit (which he would hide from you at the onset), then you might want to consider the possibility of having a future with him.
You must also be very honest about how to possibly adapt to his ills. This indeed calls for a moment of soberly reflecting on your strengths, and limits.
Do you see being married to him as the end of your relationship destination or that of a continuous Journey?
To most intending couples, their aim is towards getting married, which if they achieve brings to end their relationship pursuit. Little wonder their relationship never experiences a romantic future other than what they once had while dating.
After your wedding, you would undoubtedly experience a couple of challenges, one of such is building upon the existing bond you once had during your dating season to make it more closer.
You need to see your marriage to him as a never-ending journey, where you need to keep intriguing him, keep making sure he sees you as his idol. Do not let your guards down completely.
Yes, he has become your husband, but he doesn’t need to become too familiar with you that you can be shoved aside. This is the superior attitude women of elegance have used to run their home for ages, while still respecting their husbands.
Marriage isn’t a deal to be taken for granted. Each party needs to work towards making the relationship work.
Continuously court yourself
Bear in mind that your partner’s interests may change, and that there is something important to learn about them. Hence, you must work towards trying to impress one another, irrespective of how long you have been together.
This will help you and your partner build an exciting, strong and positive bond. Hence, always make out time to have fun thrilled activities.
So if you are planning to get married today, consider these vital factors before answering the call to marriage.