Falling in love brings with it lots of hormonal rushes and so many feelings.
There are moments we feel as though we act as though that new person in our lives is meant for us and can’t get enough of them.
You have crossed the line of a healthy rapport when You feel as though you cannot live, breath or function without him and monitor his activities (out of fear) while you are apart.
Right after a relationship comes to an end, the unhealthy force of an obsessed love is what would drive some persons to stalk his social media still, drive by his house at every slight chance and frequently live in the memories of the past experiences you both had.
Whenever someone displays such characters, it is more or less the offset of a weakness lying deep within such persons mind than the disappointment of the break-up.
What could those likely factors be? They are;
Unresolved Childhood Issues or Past History of Abandonment
If your early experience in relationships was of being abused and dumped, or you had several complications while growing as a child, then you may get too clingy whenever you get into the next relationship.
A healthy relationship involves being able to have your own life and space.
Try talking positively to yourself and manage your anxiety by exercising the conscious habit of being calm.
The State of Depression
The causes of depression are so much that when we are in such a state, being motivated becomes difficult.
Thus leading us to focus on what is presently wrong in our lives.
The need to be rescued by our loved ones can make us too attached to them, hence, losing that balance needed in a relationship. We must get ourselves off such state of depression by fighting it off and finding every reason to smile again, only then can we aspire towards having bonds of relationships with each others.
Internet Sources Can Provide Too Much Information
Excess Information Sources.
The use of Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, and other chat media sources can get us so many information about someone we like that it could get out of hand.
The natural attraction you have for such a person can degenerate to the extent of starring at the person’s pics or profile for hours.
Such a new way of living can lead to obsessive love.
Limit the time spent on such non-productive endeavors.
Low Self Esteem.
One of the many ways you could get sabotaged by low self-is by having unhealthy thought of how you don’t deserve the person in your life which can make you go out of your way to please such person.
It is essential at this point that you focus on building gifts and invest more in skills that would make you successful.
When you ain’t living your own life to the fullest, you as such place too much importance on the rapport you have with your partner. Build a life outside your partner, learn a new hobby, increase your workouts.
Fill your own life with things you enjoy which in turn would help you to create a healthy relationship where there are boundaries.