There are beyond doubt several ways of actually getting to know the level of affection your partner has for you. However, the best way of knowing is by making it subtle.
No one likes to be doubted; which is why as the best way to catch a thief or someone else in an act is to do that red-handed, so also is it in your interest to secretly know how genuine your partner’s love for you is without him knowing.
The person shouldn’t be all about themselves alone in bed
Ah well, this is the first aspect of such person you should take note of and observe due to how his/her pretentious attitude gives way while in bed with you- he/she can’t keep up with the acts, as their real-self shows up due to the overwhelming influence of emotions.
A genuinely loving partner should be cautious and to care for your likes and what turns you on or off.
Your partner’s notion shouldn’t be only about sex or nothing else. Instead, he/she should know what is right and bad for you.
The role of being your friend shouldn’t be left outside the bed, but should also be carried on to the bed.
A partner who loves you and intends having a future with you would stop you from doing anything irrational.
He or she would stop you when trying to please him/her, so you do not compromise your health.
A man for instance who loves you to a fault and sees you the woman to build a home with wouldn’t subject you to anal or oral sex- he doesn’t see you as his toy!
He or She will take good care of you when you are sick. In the instance you suddenly take ill, a true lover will go the extra mile of caring and seeing that you remain happy.
But for someone who doesn’t love you, he or she wouldn’t mind turning you into a pleasure machine, and when you take ill, they will draw a line on how far they could care for you which can’t be at the expense of their job or pockets.
They always seek your opinion
Whenever a vital decision is to be made, that person who holds you dearly in their hearts will ask for your input on the issue and will never impose their suggestions on you, if you seek for their advice.
A Genuine loving partner does not feel or act insecurely
One thing most folks fail to realize is that true love isn’t possessive and isn’t insecure.
A partner who truly loves you from the depths within their heart wouldn’t feel insure or start thinking all sort of cheating thoughts just because you didn’t pick up the call.
They will see such a situation as one that is normal and can happen to anyone.
Little things are Vital
They believe in how vital the little things are in making you happy and also never get too familiar with you to neglect doing them.