Once in a while, a girl gets to meet an amazing guy – you know, one who meets all the fancy requirements. Smart, kind, educated, tall, financially buoyant, resourceful, handsome, and a charismatic personality to sum it up. You need to know how to be the perfect girlfriend as this will make it easy to be loved.
For most ladies, whenever they meet such a guy of their dreams, it usually is a call to battle; what sort of battle, you may ask?
It is nothing else other than the pressure to step up to the standard and flair of the new found lover, so they could feel worthy of the amazing guy’s standard and not be disregarded. Such desire is a healthy competition that inspires you to improve yourself.
A big kudos to you if you are such a lucky girl who has found such catch worth building yourself for, here’s how the be the girlfriend he has always dreamt of and thanked his lucky stars to have found.
Support him in Fixing his Issues
We are humans and this perfectly defines us all. It is nothing else than this single word ‘imperfection.’ It is extremely rare or impossible to find a person who isn’t struggling with an issue or more.
As such, it wouldn’t be out of place to assume that even the most seemingly caring and adorable gentleman out there will have his shortcomings.
It could be a little habit that he hasn’t been able to shake off for a long time now. You know how it has been said of habits been difficult to break, right? Remember you just may have your ills he would have to deal with as well.
Since your guy has shown great responsibility by owning up to his flaws, you owe it to yourself to lend him a helping hand in solving his problems rather than trying to fix him.
He would bark hard at you the moment you get too clingy and out of place by trying to fix him. Let him be and focus on supporting him to improve both of you love birds lives.
Always Compliment His Effort
Men love been complimented so well that it even makes them wear a goose bump if you can creatively blow their wings- more like fanning their ego.
Once you set out to make an interesting remark about something sweet about him; you have placed yourself ahead of the millions of women who always feel entitled to all the accolades and can’t even compliment creatively except when in need.
Did you notice the effort he’s making to stay fit, why don’t make a naughty remark like ‘you sure ain’t going to leave me feeling unfit baby, I want to be like you.’
Show Him some Subtle Love in Public – Take Him Unawares!
Even though men aren’t as emotional as ladies, it doesn’t mean that they wouldn’t love been treated to some occasional romantic gestures that are subtle, like a simple kiss on his neck to remind him of the naughty moments you both share in the private.
Work Towards Fulfilling Your Ambition
It shouldn’t be about your relationship alone, you have got to give him a reason for desiring you even more and counting himself lucky to have you by pursuing something outside your home. Go set up a business, keep sowing high in your professional duties. Draw away from him a little so he could reach out towards bringing you back to his arms and thats how to be the perfect girlfriend. Do not make yourself too available.