It has been said that ‘love is such a splendor’ and while there is some iota of truth in it, love still requires time and effort to come to that level where you can both have your minds fused in deep understanding.
As it is being said ‘easy come, easy go,’ so also is it quite easy to fall in love but many stop right there.
They do not seek for ways to build their love or grow in love, but instead get carried away in the temporary sweet feeling of the moment, and they lose touch with one another after it has died out.
You have got to work out growing in love with your Partner.
Many divorces keep creeping out of marriages because the couples gave up trying to work on their marriage. But only if they had exercised some tolerance and self-control over the circumstances, with the intent of finding a way out, they would still be happy together, enjoying each other till death parts them as they promised in their marriage vows.
To keep the love growing in your marriage or relationship, there has to be every conscious effort towards being honest with yourselves daily.
There’s yet to be that person who loves been deceived; it is like having your stuff been stolen by a member of your family right in your home which you thought to be a secure abode. If you don’t feel safe at home with the others who are supposed to be your loved ones, then where else can you feel at ease.
You will live in constant fear which isn’t the right way of living for anyone.
Honesty comes from trusting in one another’s commitment to keeping private the issues that are of grave importance to you both.
Love carries with it the price of being responsible towards the involved parties.
Each person in love with the other should be willing to be held accountable for his or her actions towards the other by attending to the needs of the loved ones.
You must care and show it to your loved ones if you genuinely claim you love them. Love must progress into action.
Take turns to plan your engagements together or surprise each other; have fun by having adventurous experiences together and also create memorable moments.
It is your responsibility to discover what your spouse likes and dislikes so that you could both grow deeper in love.
Patience is not a virtue, but THE virtue which love needs to thrive in a relationship.
There’s no denying the fact that no one is perfect and as such, all partners in love need to be patient in while building their love base.
Patience in love is indeed a great display of sacrifice that goes beyond tolerance of the traits of your spouse.
Being Selfless in Fulfilling the Other’s need
The infatuation you both had which you both mistook for love can gradually start dying down once you do not put this essential ingredient to strengthen your bond of love.
It is none than fulfilling the desires of the your partner and letting your partner fulfill your own need.
There would be times where you ought to let go of your fantasies and attend to that of your partners.